THE HOLY QUR'AN HAS THE ANSWER

We ask "WHY AM I TRIED?"

Al Quran answers :

Do the people think that they will be left to say, "We believe" and they will not be tried?
(Al-`Ankabut:2)

But We have certainly tried those before them, and Allah will surely make evident those who are truthful, and He will surely make evident the liars.
(Al-`Ankabut:3)

We ask "WHY CAN'T I GET WHAT I WANT?"

Al Quran answers :

Fighting has been enjoined upon you while it is hateful to you. But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.
(Al-Baqarah:216)

We ask "WHY IS IT SUCH A HEAVY BURDEN TO ME?"

Al Quran answers :

Allah does not charge a soul except [with that within] its capacity. It will have [the consequence of] what [good] it has gained, and it will bear [the consequence of] what [evil] it has earned. ... .
(Al-Baqarah:216)

We ask "WHY IS FRUSTATION?"

Al Quran answers :

So do not weaken and do not grieve, and you will be superior if you are [true] believers.
(Ali `Imran:139)

We ask "HOW DO I DEAL WITH IT?"

Al Quran answers :

O you who have believed, persevere and endure and remain stationed and fear Allah that you may be successful.
(Ali `Imran:200)

And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive [to Allah ].
(Al-Baqarah:45)

We ask "WHAT DO I GET FROM IT?"

Al Quran answers :

Indeed, Allah has purchased from the believers their lives and their properties [in exchange] for that they will have Paradise. They fight in the cause of Allah , so they kill and are killed. [It is] a true promise [binding] upon Him in the Torah and the Gospel and the Qur'an. And who is truer to his covenant than Allah ? So rejoice in your transaction which you have contracted. And it is that which is the great attainment.
(At-Tawbah:111)

We ask "TO WHOM DO I WISH?"

Al Quran answers :

But if they turn away, [O Muhammad], say, "Sufficient for me is Allah ; there is no deity except Him. On Him I have relied, and He is the Lord of the Great Throne".
(At-Tawbah:129)

We say "I CAN'T STAND ANYMORE"

Al Quran answers :

"... and despair not of relief from Allah. Indeed, no one despairs of relief from Allah except the disbelieving people".
(Yusuf:87)